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Updated: Arrington, CNN And Diversity: Problem or Symptom of Change?

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In a matter of hours, a huge debate broke out on Twitter after CNN released a soundbite from an interview that occurred between Mike Arrington, Founder of TechCrunch and interviewer, Soledad O’Brian, anchor and special correspondent at CNN. Read More…

My First Earthquake In San Francisco

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Finally!  My first earthquake experience in California!  Yesterday afternoon seemed like any other day here in San Francisco: sunny, clear skies and in the 60′s.  That was until the earth shook!

I was recording a YouTube video on curly hair when all of a sudden it felt like a giant worm from the movie Beetlejuice or Dune went under the building.  I felt a sense of vertigo while it happened.  Being in San Francisco in the Mission, the earthquake felt very brief, less than 2 seconds it seemed.

In the video, you can see me retreat from the balcony and then start processing what just happened.  +1 for using logic and common sense during a natural disaster!

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I’m In NYC For A Week! Purposeful Plans and Pivotal Adventures

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I arrived in NYC on Sunday and will be here for an entire week!

In addition to being asked to speak at the awesome Web 2.0 conference, I’m excited to be back and this time plan to spend time connecting with people and companies I always seem to run out of time for.  The weather is super warm in the 70′s and 80′s with those oh-so-warm nights one comes to miss when living in San Francisco. Read More…

15 Things I Learned Dating The Right Guy

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I have done a lot of dating in the last year.  This has allowed me to compare and experience what at times feels like polar opposites to how guys go about woo’ing a lady.

I’ve known since I was a teenager I wanted to be in a relationship, one-to-one, with a guy who I thought was awesome and thought the same of me.  Ever hopeful, I started dating again last year with renewed optimism since the ratio of men to women in San Francisco seems to be in my favor. Read More…

Steve Jobs Has Died

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This afternoon major news outlets reported that Steve Jobs had died (ABC,  CBS, Wired, PC MagazineReuters, USA Today) .  Apple released a statement to the media that Steve Jobs had passed away.

I’m Back Learning Ruby On Rails

Last week I joined a Ruby on Rails study group.

I’m excited about being able to connect on a weekly basis with others who are learning to program as well.  We even have an iPhone developer in the group!

Last year I attended the Ruby on Rails Outreach Workshop for Women at the Pivotal Labs offices here in San Francisco.  While that was great and all and I think Sarah Allen is wonderful for encouraging more women to start programming in Ruby, I realize I didn’t have anything to tether my development interests so I filled in my summer with work, travel and conferences.

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My First Visit To Sonoma Aka Wine Country Today!

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Today I’ll be heading up to Sausalito to meet up with my friend Cheryl Contee (@ch3ryl) and we will go to Sonoma.

Update: We didn’t head up to Sonoma due to the cloudy weather and instead had a meal in Sausilito which was relaxing and amazing!

This will be my first time in “wine country” and I’m a bit nervous and excited about it!  We’ve been planning to meetup for over a month so now the day has arrived!

While I could include a bunch a photos from Flickr here, I’m going to bring my camera along and snap my own photos.  We’ll see how those turn out and I’ll update this post over the weekend.

Here’s a Google map of the ferry I’ll be taking.  Exciting!

Event: The Whole Enchihuahua In Dolores Park May 1st, 2011

The SF SPCA invited the San Francisco Chihuahua Meetup to participate in the Whole Enchihuahua at Dolores Park on Sunday, May 1st.  We are proud and excited to participate in this exciting event!

The Whole Enchihuahua

Festivities 1 p.m. – 4 p.m.
Costume Contest 2 p.m. – 3 p.m.

Enter your dog in the contest and prove what you already know: you have the cutest dog on the planet.

Many dogs will enter. Only one dog will win. Costumes highly encouraged. Open to all breeds and sizes.

Prizes include 2 tickets from Virgin America, 2 night stay at the Hotel Monaco, 2 tickets to Grub Crawl and more

Come for the contest, stay for the fun.

  • Ask A Vet – live with Dr. Jeanette Goh
  • Face painting
  • Take a spin on the prize wheel
  • Check out the new Mini Cooper
  • Enjoy grub from Off The Grid food trucks
  • Be serenaded by Trio Sol de America
  • Adopt your next furry friend from the San Francisco SPCA, ACC, Muttville, Family Dog Rescue, A Leg Up Rescue and more

http://www.7×7.com/thewholeenchihuahua

Can Social Media Spark A Revolution? 5 Social Media Connections That Changed My Life

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Can Social Media Spark A Revolution?

Malcolm Gladwell put out an article last year that the revolution would not be on Twitter.  He cited several examples from laissez-faire Facebook groups failing to raise enough money despite the massive number of fans to how friendships cultivated in college were the foundational success of the Woolworth’s sit-in by the young men who planned, rallied and led the protests against segregation in Greensboro, North Carolina.

On the other hand, an article in the New York Times explain the seemly strange sense of closeness, “ambient awareness”, people feel towards others who participate in social networks.  A New York Times article explained the sense of comfort and closeness one could feel by being able to receive “updates” about the other person whether through Twitter, Facebook or a blog.

My definition of revolution: Dramatic shifts in awareness followed by measurable, sustained action….the foundation of a revolution.

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Karate Kid Moment: Do One Thing Well In The Present Moment And Let Go Of Your Baggage

In this clip, Mr. Miyagi has Daniel wash and wax all the cars that came in from Detroit. He explains,

“Walk on road. Walk right side; safe. Walk left side; safe. Walk middle, sooner or later *squish*, just like grape.”

This is because Daniel answered Mr. Miyagi with a, “I guess so.”

The message here is that your actions, thoughts and results should be definitive. If you are doing something half heartedly, you will not achieve your full potential. Do your very best in the moment and live for the present. Of course we all giggle when Daniel is made to wash all the cars that came in from Detroit but he was being taught to narrow his focus. Wax on with his right hand, wax off with the left. Systematic, methodical, predictable.

This morning, I had a flashback to this part of the film due to an amazing meeting yesterday which led to an amazing breakthrough…
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I’m Going To Google YouTube Headquarters! #AskYT

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I’ve been invited to head down to Mountain View to visit with the YouTube Partner folks!  We’ll have lunch and then be part of a “Ask Youtube” meetup with discussion. Although this will be livestreamed, they won’t be taking quesitons about the new livestreaming service YouTube is working on.

Participate

There’s a Twitter hashtag for questions #AskYT
and you can watch the livestream at http://www.youtube.com/youtube

This will also allow me to check off another item from my long list of life goals!  I applied for the YouTube Partner Program in February 20111 so I could do revenue sharing, have access to customize my channel, longer upload permissions and any other goodies parterns were eligble for.

At one time, the thought of talking in front of a camera scared me to death but I’ve been able to overcome that and now enjoy helping others by sharing what I know.  Plus, monetizing that knowledge is a blessing I’m going to pursue.  Just like Angel of ConcreteLoop said, “It’s not selling out, it’s stepping up” when you look at, evaluate and put your gifts to work with advertisers.

Super excited about this opportunity!

My Birthday Video: Values, Accomplishments, Gratitude & Goals for 2011

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Gratitude, Resolutions and Thank you’s for 2010 from Adria

As 2010 comes to a close, I’ve created a video to share five things I’m grateful for, three resolutions for 2011 and 20 people who I would like to thank for making a difference in my life this year! Read More…

New Yorkers Dumpster Dive For Free Shoes In Union Square [VIDEO]

Would you dig through trash for free fashion?  With the economy still affecting much of the country, people are always looking for ways to save money.  Over 50 New Yorkers scored scored free name brand shoes Sunday night in Union Square by taking initiative.

I was leaving Max Brenner’s with my Twitter friend @Nukirk when we saw a group of people gathered in front of Shoemania on the corner of Broadway and 14th.  As we approached, it appeared that people were looking at the bags of trash on the curb.  Some bags had been opened and people were looking through the trash for shoes.

There were about 30 people separating empty boxes, loose paper and empty soda cups from shoes.  There were murmurs that there were only left shoes but that was quickly squashed when someone yelled, “I found a pair!”.  People moved in quickly, opening up new bags and pouring the contents onto the sidewalk.  A young couple had found 4 pairs of mens shoes and had them lined up near Storemania’s closed doors.  I chatted with several people who apparently had found matching pairs of shoes.  Nukirk overheard people working together to find matches.
New Yorkers Dumpster Dive For Free Shoes

There were all sorts of shoes including Adidas, Crocs, Converse, Ed Hardy, Dansko, Sketchers, Teva, Donald Pliner, MBT, Steve Madden, Mephisto, Ecco and Dr. Martins.  Styles included everything from women’s heels and sandals to men’s dress shoes and high end sneakers.

For some human sociology reason, this sort of behaviour captivated me.  I snapped a few photos at this unique flashmob event.  A taxi slowed down to check out what was going on.  A woman in a tan SUV stopped as if she was considering joining the free-for-all.  I asked Nukirk if he wanted to join in.  We edged our way into the crowd as I exclaimed how people were overcoming the social messages that “dumpster diving” is a bad thing.  I’ve seen some beautiful furniture pieces my friends have landed at garage sales, on Craigslist and yes, dumpster diving on the weekends.  I started by watching others toss and sort shoes.  Nukirk was hopeful he’d match up a pair of artsy sneakers.  I scanned for matching pairs, tossing and sorting shoes to the sidewalk to make this a cooperative dumpster delight.

I ended up scoring a pair of brown sandals early on and had a great time joining all these enterprising New Yorkers in getting a great deal!  As we looked for our pairs, people stopped, stared, joined in, took photos and helped others find matching pairs.

As I left in a taxi with my score, I saw the crowd had swelled and wished everyone good luck in finding their next pair *smile*

Is Your iPhone App Supporting Hate Crimes? The story TaxiMagic and Mustafa [VIDEO]

Are iPhone apps like TaxiMagic perpetuating hate crimes?

Last night I took a taxi home from the Tenderloin to the Mission District.  I had the pleasure of being driven by Mustafa, a relaxed, cheerful older man.  Mustafa shared with me how he no longer feels safe driving his cab after 16 years due to an iPhone app called TaxiMagic.  He’s had at least three bad experiences upon being dispatched to a call that originated from the TaxiMagic iPhone app.

It’s affecting his work focus and earnings and the supervisor won’t help.

I asked Mustafa for permission to record our conversation.

If you have ideas that could help Mustafa, email me adria@butyoureagirl.com

Beautiful 4th: Food, Focus, Freedom & Fireworks

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Yesterday I spent my first 4th of July in San Francisco. We had a BBQ here and then some fellow Zendeskians came over and we headed off to visit Clay, our old co-worker who was having a Vegan cookout.

Scene on the rooftop in the Mission – Lot of Googlers since both roommates work there.  Young crowd.  Single + few couples.  Freetime.  Smartphone in your pocket. Burgers.  Hot dogs (kosher?). Sunny.  More beer than the cooler could hold.

Scene at Clay’s in Mission/Noe – Young crowd.  More couples.  Indoors.  A few dogs.  Curios cat feeder.  Agile development. Pet rescue.  Delicious white wine sangria. Jailbreaking.

It’s been almost 5 years since I made a commitment to be more social.  Small talk is still not my favorite thing in the entire world; it’s like a salty drink in the middle of a desert.   This geeky introvert has come a long way from not showing up at parties to seeking them out and *gasp* inviting others to come!

On this day of celebrating freedom, I felt especially appreciative that I even have the CHOICE to focus my attention, future and career.  I was born in New York City at a Jewish Hospital in 1978.   If I were born just 100 – 200 years earlier, I would be disenfranchised due to my race, gender and high falootin’ curiosity about science, technology and trying new things.  That fact that I’m a combination of races could have created even more hardship.  This post was quite a bit longer but I’m going to hold of on the second part while I develop it out a bit.

Be grateful.  Live in the moment.  Appreciate every day you wake up breathing.

5 Successful Women Bloggers Added To My Blogroll

Today I’m adding 5 awesome women bloggers to my Blogroll who I’ve met in the last year.  Thanks for inspiring me, kicking arse and taking names like these badass roller girls!

I’ve picked 3 words to describe each blog:

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Each of these women have given me guidance, whether they know it or not, every time they’ve hit “publish” on their blogs.  I’ve seen them struggle with career, family, fame, haters, business deals gone bad, business deals gone good, health issues, weight loss, weight gain, moves halfway across the country, technology triumphs and technology disasters.  More recently, landing book deals and finding lucky four leaf clovers stuck to your shoes causing you to bend down and pick up a winning, uncashed lottery tickets (well, maybe not those last two but I’m sure they are right around the corner!).  It’s given me the courage to step out of my comfort zone and reach a bit further than I normally would.  I’ve come a very long way in the last year, feeling like my spirit has been reborn with this intense desire to authentically connect with others.  It’s like hot chocolate for the soul and I wondered what I had been so afraid of before.

Life is about living.  That takes a certain amount of risk.  Walking forward into the unknown.  Thank you ladies for leading the way!

11 Reasons Why I’m Learning Ruby On Rails

Tonight I undertake a new skill set.  Learning Ruby on Rails.  For the next two days, the Ruby On Rail Outreach Workshop For Women will be underway in San Francisco and I’m excited to be attending!

We’ll be at Pivotal Labs both days getting our environment setup and learning the basics of programming in Ruby.

I’ve picked up the book by Chris Pine, “Learn To Program” and am installing my Ruby development apps checklist now.

If you’re an experienced developer on the Ror platform, volunteers for this event and upcoming ruby trainings are welcome!

I’m going to share with you the reasons why I’m learning to program after so long. Read More…

@RickBakas and Elu Wine Rock! #SXSW

I met @RickBakas through my twitter friend Lisa (@WineDiverGirl) because she was doing twintros (Twitter Introductions) during SXSW. Rick is a class act and funny too!

He held a beautiful, relaxing wine tasting event Monday evening at SXSW that was just perfect!

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It was a wonderful change from the packed, dark parties of SXSW. I invited about 10 folks to join me and had a great time sampling the St. Supery wine. I only tasted the red wines and loved the Elu! Read More…

Khayyam and Adria at the Austin Airport #SXSW



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I got to meet @iamkhayyam in person again and this time I remembered to take a photo with him!

He’s a great guy to follow on Twitter because he’s constantly linking up to interesting stories, photography, funny stuff and he’s has his fingers on the pulse of social media. I don’t care if that sounds corny because it’s true!